
Yesterday, a federal judge in a district Court of Appeals in Florida ruled that Florida's ban on adoption of children by gay and lesbian parents is unconstitutional. Forida Governor Crist agreed to cease the former law's enforcement immediately, opening the doors for thousands of gay and lesbian couples to begin the adoption process, thereby finding homes for even more children who so desperately need them. As probably all of you know, I am a staunch advocate for gay rights. This ruling will be significant for a couple of reasons:
1. The ruling will give necessary political momentum to the gay movement that will hopefully carry to 2012 when there will be Prop 8 take two (except this time, Camp Equality is pushing the initiative). In general victories for Equality such as this tend to have a ripple effect, changing the political climate for gays and lesbians such that the issue of homosexuality is put on the front burner of discussion, bringing the issues and grievances out of the closet, if you will.
2. When the ruling proceeds to the Supreme Court, a ruling in favor of adoption could nullify all laws banning gays from adopting in every state in the Nation.
Personally, this ruling is exciting for me. I have many gay friends who have adopted and are so glad they did. Knowing the children of many gay parents and seeing that they do not possess any abnormal developmental issues, I am extremely confident that gay adoption does not pose a threat for children.
The Prop 8 campaign ran a barrage of campaign ads claiming that should gay marriage become illegal, the children will somehow be compromised. These false and negative stereotypes hurt more than I can tell you. Aside from the political aspect of it, I had people telling me and everyone in the State of California that I am somehow dangerous to children, That I am a near satanic figure who wants to harm children. And when California passed Prop 8, it was personal. California told me that I am someone to be feared, and someone from whom to "protect children." This is why this ruling is especially touching to me, because it finally seems as though people aren't buying this anymore.
If you are not pro- marriage for gay people or adoption, I REALLY want you to comment and I swear I will not freak out and hate on you. We have a lot to learn from each other and I hope that this recent ruling can set up these discussions.
Love, The Power Gay








